Firm attires that appeal strongly in connective relationships

 Firm attires that appeal strongly in connective relationships

¬ By Vimal Kodai ¬

Key features that dwell relevant in Conjugal Relationships and Lifelong Connectedness

Born with endeavouring capacities for leading lifestyles that require replenishments on grounds of strongly-equipped moral and spiritual joys, both men and women have the right aptitudes to lead family lives that derive from true connectedness between each of their respective counterpart’s behavioural traits. Significant qualities that find admittance in respective couples’ midst are triggered by instincts that are based on basic human behaviours. Although, while growing up and while going through phases of learning that instigate us all (humans) to believe that all men and all women are created to sustain equally maintained lifestyles in several aspects of life, it is as well, a true realistic fact that each (men and women) behave differently in various circumstances. Men’s approaches to dealing with several challenging instances usually differ to the way women handle conflicts or unwelcome events.

 

Daily, life makes its way with many upturns and downturns in every living human’s life. Often, very highly optimistic moments blossom, whereby the mind and the body can admit extreme moments of happiness and joy. Or, life can be a gloomy pathway whereby no hope and no way out can be the end results.

It is also often deduced that a man/woman is his/her own enemy, foe, and self-destroyer as he/she is the self-responsible holder of his/her Karmic deeds and actions. Thus, humans can make designated choice in order to establish either joy or sadness in their lives. In relationships, especially when it comes to maintaining good terms while keeping balance in everyday living, it is always a daily challenge to face several approaches that are being displayed by a counterpart’s attitudes to situations, circumstances and events. Relationship — from any kind of origins: friendly, brotherly, sisterly, fatherly, motherly, or conjugal, or even, others that one may come across, are brittle in their own respective nature. One has to ‘feed the relationship’ with ‘the right food’ in order to witness flourishing results in its turnout. Relationships which are impacted by the slightest lack of trust, have a high likelihood of having short-term lasting spans. The higher the levels of trust in a relationship, the longer it survives. The significances of ‘trust’ vary from person to person. ‘Trust’ can also mean different things to individuals who come from different kinds of family backgrounds. Trust is a word that can signify lots to one whereby it can also signify something minimal but very crucial to another.

 

Relationships encounter conflicting moments under some of the examples stated here below:

 

1.    Lying to one another for minimal causes;

 

2.    Hiding something really minimally inappropriate ‘behind the back’ of one’s loved partner;

 

3.    Having an affair or having affairs while keeping one’s soulmate in the shadows. The affair(s) can take place through an act of betrayal while having extra-marital relationship(s) with other partner (s) whereby hiding all of the cheating incidence(s) in a secretive way from one’s committed life partner is the solemn sinful act;

4.    Going out to parties with friends who lead vicious lifestyles (drinking alcoholic beverages, smoking, consuming drugs, and keeping a nightlife routine), and hiding the act from one’s conjugal or life partner;

 

5.    Lying to one’s life partner on themes that are considered negligible or unimportant whereby future events that translate into may jeopardize situations that present themselves on unexpected moments;

 

6.    Leading double-sided lifestyles whereby one of the counterparts (the man or the woman, usually) displays a different representation of a certain kind towards the other partner when in reality there is a fake personality that is really ‘in play’. This concerned counterpart is lying to his/her life partner while he/she is leading a double-sided role whereby lying to the other people being dealt with in the other kind of lifestyle of everyday living, is also being lived with pure fakery;

 

7.    Stealing monetary funds, and/or allowing money or financial assets to be depleted from one’s trusted life partner’s banking account(s) without letting this latter person aware of its true usage;

 

8.    OTHER… There are other forms of conjugal relationships and/or lifelong love connectedness that exist in their sincere falsehoods. These vary in their own respective ways from relationship to relationship. However, due to the elaborate situations that depict each of their respective manifestations, these are not being pointed out herein.

The reality of a true relationship is crucially based on the degree of trust that is being maintained all throughout the relationship’s turnout. Most often, true relationships survive all the way through when love is kept ongoing and that obstructions of different kinds don’t dare create any unhealthy impact on its existence.

The fear of losing someone’s company (i.e., the life partner, spouse, lover, companion and/or the conjugal soulmate’s company), is the leading cause for keeping this someone away from knowing the reality of one’s innermost evil-minded residues. These evil-minded residues are the ones that usually turnout to be the firm displays of betrayals in relationships. These evil remnants often translate into acts that lead to inappropriate consequences. The truth remains very hard to acknowledge, unless with gutful beliefs and daring insights, all is resolved at ‘one go’. This evil-self can be freed once and for all from one’s midst when all misleading thoughts or doubtful instincts are eliminated from the mind of one’s life-counterpart. By admitting with full accountability on the true reasons behind one’s act of betrayal towards the respective companion or life partner, all conflicting issues can be resolved. The fact that it is best to tell the truth with a daring attitude, allows this relationship to flourish with no further deteriorations. If true love really exists, and that the sense of care is present, the other life partner or life companion will eventually forgive and allow the relationship to carry its course.

 

Firm attires that appeal strongly in relationships, are met with the following key traits: honesty, sincerity, truthfulness, patience, persevering approaches, calm and serene attitudes, dedications, devotions, spiritual understandings, compassion, comprehension, open-minded self, etc.

 

A true meaningful relationship that survives all challenges is one that needs not much analysis from any kinds of parties. It is witnessed in its real format. It is one such relationship that defies nothing and that has nothing much to prove to anyone or to anybody. It will survive all the way through until death separate the couple from each of their respective midst. The very essential fact that it survives makes it a significant relationship that marks an exemplary journey to live up to. Acts of selflessness, abilities of keeping calm and serene thinking, daily organizing and monitoring of actions and activities, as well as, maintaining balance in health, wealth and time management, are the true realities that set an exemplary relationship apart from downsides of life. A true relationship requires no ties to the possession of beauty, attraction, good-looks, extreme wealth, or highly-ranked social status for its presence dwells in the remarkable connective bond between two loved ones.

Temples, Mosquées, Églises et Pagodes (Poem By Vimal Kodai)

 Temples, Mosquées, Églises et Pagodes

By Vimal Kodai

Le soleil brille à chaque reprise sur nous, les êtres humains.

Le soleil brille, et la nuit fait son impact néfaste aussi.

La clarté illumine, tandis que l’obscurité éparpille sa noirceur.  

Les temples, les mosquées, les églises, les pagodes et les lieux pieux,

Ces structures qui marquent l’âge décent de notre existence,

Ces maisonnettes qui gardent les représentants des dieux et des déesses, 

Toujours mélodieuses, ils existent pour les êtres qui se rendent ridicules.

Souvent, ces êtres tentent de faire des maudits péchés,

Car, ils s’estiment grands et forts.

Ils font des gestes qui exemplifient leurs actions.

Les temples, les mosquées, les églises, les pagodes, et…

D’autres lieux décents visent à éclaircir l’ignorance qui règne parmi nous.

Sans couardise, ces autorités divines se penchent vers une vie paisible.

Les temples, les mosquées, les églises et les pagodes,

Et, ces autres lieux décents projettent une vision de tranquillité…

Une tranquillité qui règnera jusqu’à l’éternité et fera ses bienfaits partout.

Les temples, les mosquées, les églises, les pagodes,

Et, ces autres lieux décents, guides d’une erre incertaine,

Brillent éternellement afin d’éliminer les actes vicieux.

                                                                                    Nom : Vimal Kodai

                                                                                    Date : Le  4 mai, 2014

                                                       Heure : 12 :32 :37

a-ha - A short history of a Norwegian Band of Three

 a-ha

A short history of a Norwegian Band of Three

By Vimal Kodai

a-ha (Commonly pronounced in Norway as A’ha, or simply A-ha) is and has been a Rock’ n’ Roll music band from the early 1980’s. A-ha blasted itself fully with melodious songs and rhythmic music, while its comforting but soothing tones spanned across the distances all around the globe. Its key entertaining vocalist—Morten Harket; its striking songwriter and guitarist—Pål Waaktaar-Savoy, and its brilliant keyboard player—Magne Furuholmen made highlighting impact on the stage of fame during the early 1980’s and onwards.

               A-ha              

The word ‘A-ha’ echoed in a powerful way to Morten Harket. Its songwriter, Pål Waaktaar-Savoy had initially cited one such song title under this same “A-ha” spelling. To the highest of expectations, after glancing at the notebook of Pål’s,  Morten made his way to hailing and announcing that their Band of Three would be ideally known as a-ha. Conclusive facts suggested that “A-ha” is meant for a resonating word of recognition and acknowledgement. It is as well a name with an unusual twist that can be easily mastered and pronounced. Morten Harket, Pål Waaktaar-Savoy and Magne Furuholmen felt revived upon the acknowledgement that their band would be known as A-ha.

A-ha 

The band’s members who are originally from Oslo (Norway), met in New York and led their ways to being officially established under the keen lead guidance of Morten Harket. The latter, Pål Waaktaar-Savoy and Magne Furuholmen were officially set on the march for an ongoing journey towards Rock’ n’ Roll stardom as from September 14^th of 1982.

Morten Harket

A-ha

a-ha’s Rock’ n’ Roll itemized themes, alongside the creative minds of its threesome talents, several hit songs found their births in the comforts of distinguished lists of hit singles. Chart-topping eras of fabulous musical songs followed for several years ahead. These were namely: Take on me; Stay on These Roads; Touchy; Crying in the Rain; Hunting High and Low; Cry Wolf; You are the One; The Blood that Moves the Body; The Sun Always Shines on T.V; and the list goes on…

A-ha

           Bibliography (Source and main resource accredited to)

• A-HA, (2015), a-ha: The Band; Retrieved from Worldwide Web on the 17^th of June, 2017 from: http://a-ha.com/the-band/

Fake attitudes leading to True Attributes... The True Integrity Deep Within

 Her fake smile, my fake attitude

Sincerity at stake, I entrust soul and spirit unto her.

Integrity in play, I set sail alongside this true lady’s shores.

An unimaginable honesty to give, I bring this woman into my midst.

With passionate vision, our love story finds newer horizons to adore.

 

Time goes by, we get used to our capricious attitudes…

Time goes by, we have something painful to live with—daily.

Time flies by, we find something truly admirable in our habits.

Time flies by, we observe that we are getting used to our vices.

 

Love and laughter were the first aspirations that struck our souls.

Love and trustworthiness were the other ‘keys’ drawing us near to each other.

Love and sincerity made us who we were meant to be.

Love and blessed feelings were the riches that rekindled our sorrows and sadness.

 

Time showed us the way as we found something really nasty that came along.

Time flew vividly, we found sorrowful instances coming into our lives again.

Lies were inexistent in our love story, yet strange and weird moments happened.

Lies were neither told nor heard, yet we sensed some strange melancholy.

 

A fake smile emerged from her face on one unpredictable day.

A fake expression on her face made me feel unloved and unwanted.

Fake attitudes began to show themselves in my attitudes and behaviour.

Unwanted pretentious behaviour gave rise to unneeded upheavals.

 

On one bright day, I tell myself: “This shouldn’t happen to us…

This can’t happen to us. Not in this lifetime. Not to our love story. Not again.”

Setting assail once again on this new stormy weather, I applaud our true story.

Setting new goals by bringing new meanings to our story, I feel inspired.

 

Her fake smile eventually fades. My fake attitudes diminish.

My fake habits find some tiny fragrances of optimism.

Newer meanings shatter our fake smiles, embracing prospective onsets.

Gradually, slowly, eventually, life finds brilliant significances.

 

                                                                   By: Vimal Kodai

                                                                                     Date: 19^th February, 2020

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PANDEMICS IN EARLY HISTORY 

Significant Pandemics which have surfaced throughout our early human history

Pandemics in Prehistory

A Brief Overlook

The Plague Timeline

Pandemics are the resulting outcomes of unpredictable diseases that spread out under no known timings (to humankind) while inflicting possible mortal consequences to vast numbers of the human populations. Pandemics are usually the outcomes of: Post-war eras, Post-global depressions periods and these can even emerge under no known circumstances in specific spots on our planet – where health haphazard are at their critical extremes, and where other factors; such as malnutrition, famine, or natural calamities (for e.g.: droughts, hurricanes, cyclones, typhoons, floods, tornadoes, tsunamis and/or other natural catastrophes) have already done their required damages to human lives.

Pandemics, when at their peaking moments, increasingly spread across few countries or continents ‘or’ they can even turn out to be global “killers” while having significant impacts on our earthly planet’s main inhabitants—human beings or Homo Sapiens. Pandemics are the mass extended versions of epidemics. On one hand, epidemics create limited damaging effects to our human race’s survival’s journey, while pandemics inflict extensive mortal health harms to humans (or at times, even animals which form part of the human food chain, may face such harmful effects).

Pandemics have existed ever since our human evolution has seen its dawns. During the hunter-gatherers periods (about 10,000 years ago), pandemics were already creating sets of harmful mortal consequences to our human existences. Influenza, Leprosy, Tuberculosis, Malaria, smallpox were the known diseases that have surfaced over the course of the past several centuries.

With time, as our human race has evolved and that this human civilization of our planet’s eventually became known as the so-called ‘civilized’ race of God’s worthy creations—pandemics and epidemics, surfacing over the course of several lapses of our human history, have manifested in ways that have only been portrayed as the nastiest to humanity. Thus, this human race has remained stunned with helplessness when trying to face the devastating effects of such apocalyptic events in its history.

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Elaboration on the Early Present Age

Pandemics – From 430 B.C, Athens (Greece) to 11th Century Leprosy (Across Europe)

In 430 B.C (430 years Before Christ) in Athens (Greece)

The Athenian Plague

In the aftermath of the Polynesian War, typhoid fever’s threats that originated from nowadays’ countries of Egypt, Libya, and Ethiopia, marched through to Greece while ravaging Athens’ populations with an intense deadly hit. The Spartans who were at war with Greece during those times, held a victorious war outcome over their Athenian enemies as a consequential result of the typhoid fever pandemic which eradicated most of Athens’ populations. The Greek populations had seen an over-sizing mortality rates, after this feverish outspread made its way into the midst of their capital city. A total of 250,000 to 300,000 people perished by the time the Athenian Plague ended 3 years after its original onset (in 427 B.C).

The Athenian Plague

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In 165 A.D (165 Anno Domino – 165 years after the date of the birth of Christ)

The Antonine Plague

The Antonine Plague

The Antonine Plague was the consequential result of a widespread of smallpox originating from nomadic warriors known as Huns. The Huns were the ones who terrorized Europe by leading persistent wars against the Roman Empire.

The ‘smallpox’ that struck the European continent, infected the Germans in the first place. Thereafter, it impacted other countries all over Europe. The Roman Empire suffered as the direct result of this Pandemic: the Antonine Plague was the sole responsible cause of one of its main victims—Emperor Marcus Aurelius passed away in the year 180 A.D from this destructive ‘smallpox killer’. 

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In 250 A.D (250 Anno Domino – 250 years after the birth-date of Jesus Christ)

The Cyprian Plague

The Cyprian Plague

Holding its name from Saint Cyprian (St. Cyprian, the Christian Bishop of Carthage), the Cyprian Plague found its birth in Northern Africa. Saint Cyprian was a pious and saintly Christian theologian who made a remarkable impact to the lives of Christians residing in North Africa during the prosecution of Rome. The Cyprian plague made its first outbreak in Ethiopia. Then, it led itself towards Italy (Rome), while afterwards proceeding northerly and spreading across some other countries in Europe. 

With the Cyprian Plague in play, the Roman Empire was once again hit by a vital blow while having to deal with another pandemic which surfaced right after the painful era of the recent Antonine Plague. Originating from Ethiopia, in 250 Common Era – 250 Anno Domino, this Cyprian plague lasted for 20 long years while consistently eliminating 5000 people on a daily basis between 249 A.D onto 270 A.D. The Cyprian Plague made itself known by notable key symptoms, such as: throat ulcers, feverish episodes, diarrhea, vomiting and gangrenous feet and hands.

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In 541 A.D (541 Anno Domino – 541 years, after the birth of Jesus Christ)

The Justinian Plague

The Geographical outline mapping the Justinian Plague's outspread 

Named after the Roman Emperor, Justinian—the Justinian Plague originated from Egypt in 541 A.D. It then spread throughout Palestine, over to the Byzantine Empire, and throughout the Mediterranean coasts’ coastal countries. The Justinian Plague was the true cause behind the massive economic failure of Emperor Justinian’s plan of bringing The Roman Empire to a steady lead in Europe (both, in the widespread of Christianity alongside keeping its strong, balanced and solid economic empirical shape).

 

The Justinian Plague

The Justinian Plague

The Byzantine Empire which was known as the leading spot, land and place where the Roman Empire was gradually flourishing, was first ruled by Emperor Constantine I. This Roman Empire’s newly designated location’s capital city was named after this very same emperor, while bearing the name: Constantinople. The huge hit of the Justinian Plague, which lasted between 541 A.D and 750 A.D, maximized the Byzantine Empire’s deaths to a total of approximately 50,000,000 (falling in between the 25 millions and 100 millions digits). This plague did more of its devastating harms to the City of Constantinople.  The Justinian Plague which consisted of symptoms of enlarged lymphatic glands, was carried by rats and thereafter spread by fleas. After its initial appearance in 541 A.D, the Justinian Plague transitioned into the Bubonic Plague. The wave of this pandemic was effective for over the next two centuries, killing more than 25% of the world’s populations of the time.

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11^th Century Europe

11th Century Leprosy

(Leprosy, also known as Hansen Disease)

Leprosy is recorded in human history for having been one terribly mortal disease that gradually inflicts sufferable consequences onto and into the human body. Leprosy’s principal symptoms consist of deteriorating conditions of the skin. Consequently, this condition infiltrates the inner rim of the body with growing intensity. Thereafter, the skin condition deteriorates, blood vessels and muscle tissues are deeply impacted, bones and skeletal structures are hit, the cerebral part and the nervous system are eventually weakened, and finally, the body decays or rots while admitting a deadly end to the one dealing with this disease.

Leprosy or also known as Hansen Disease is and has always been a highly contagious disease. It is believed to have had strong but direct ties to the state of uncleanliness and imperfections of the human body and mind which eventually translates into this horrific disease.

A Pandemic, with (*1)enormous death counts in 11th Century Europe’s Leprosy’s outspread, the Middle Ages found (*2)mortality rates at its peaking highs right in the transitioning period underlying the fall of the Roman Empire and the Renaissance.

 

ASTERIXES IN THE LAST PARAGRAPH

(*1) and (*2)): Total Deaths Statistics of 11^th Century Leprosy's resulting outcome is somewhat vague. This is the main reason for no fixed or no set number of deaths accounted for on this particular Pandemic outbreak's portion.

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Bibliography

1.   History.com Editors, (January 30^th, 2020), Pandemics that changed human history: As human civilization rose, these diseases struck them down; Retrieved from Worldwide website on the 17^th of June, 2020 from URL:

https://www.history.com/topics/middle-ages/pandemics-timeline

 

2.   Intriguing History, (April 24^th, 2017), Medieval Leprosy: In Medieval times leprosy was a disease to be feared and sufferers removed to a place of isolation; Retrieved from Worldwide website on the 17^th of June, 2020 from URL:

https://www.intriguing-history.com/medieval-leprosy/

Un Jour Lumineux

Un jour lumineux

                                                                             

                                             

                                       

                                          

Aucune vitesse.
Aucun doute.
Aucune fausseté.
Aucun chagrin.

Sans innocence.               

Sans farce.                          

Sans rage.                           

Sans beauté.
                       

Aucun souci.

Aucune colère.

Aucun regret.

Aucune douleur.

Sans culpabilité.

Sans méchanceté.

Sans ridicule.

Sans cruauté.

Sans aucun mépris.

Sans aucun mensonge.

Sans aucun trouble.         

Sans aucun vice.

Ainsi, ce jour lumineux se réveille au levé de ce soleil.

Par : Vimal Kodai

Moment : Matin

Jour : Lundi

Date : Le 6 juillet, 2020

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