Firm attires that appeal strongly in connective relationships
¬ By Vimal Kodai ¬
Key features that dwell relevant in Conjugal Relationships and Lifelong Connectedness
Born with endeavouring capacities for leading lifestyles that require replenishments on grounds of strongly-equipped moral and spiritual joys, both men and women have the right aptitudes to lead family lives that derive from true connectedness between each of their respective counterpart’s behavioural traits. Significant qualities that find admittance in respective couples’ midst are triggered by instincts that are based on basic human behaviours. Although, while growing up and while going through phases of learning that instigate us all (humans) to believe that all men and all women are created to sustain equally maintained lifestyles in several aspects of life, it is as well, a true realistic fact that each (men and women) behave differently in various circumstances. Men’s approaches to dealing with several challenging instances usually differ to the way women handle conflicts or unwelcome events.
Daily, life makes its way with many upturns and downturns in every living human’s life. Often, very highly optimistic moments blossom, whereby the mind and the body can admit extreme moments of happiness and joy. Or, life can be a gloomy pathway whereby no hope and no way out can be the end results.
It is also often deduced that a man/woman is his/her own enemy, foe, and self-destroyer as he/she is the self-responsible holder of his/her Karmic deeds and actions. Thus, humans can make designated choice in order to establish either joy or sadness in their lives. In relationships, especially when it comes to maintaining good terms while keeping balance in everyday living, it is always a daily challenge to face several approaches that are being displayed by a counterpart’s attitudes to situations, circumstances and events. Relationship — from any kind of origins: friendly, brotherly, sisterly, fatherly, motherly, or conjugal, or even, others that one may come across, are brittle in their own respective nature. One has to ‘feed the relationship’ with ‘the right food’ in order to witness flourishing results in its turnout. Relationships which are impacted by the slightest lack of trust, have a high likelihood of having short-term lasting spans. The higher the levels of trust in a relationship, the longer it survives. The significances of ‘trust’ vary from person to person. ‘Trust’ can also mean different things to individuals who come from different kinds of family backgrounds. Trust is a word that can signify lots to one whereby it can also signify something minimal but very crucial to another.
Relationships encounter conflicting moments under
some of the examples stated here below:
1.
Lying to one another for
minimal causes;
2.
Hiding something really
minimally inappropriate ‘behind the back’ of one’s loved partner;
3.
Having an affair or
having affairs while keeping one’s soulmate in the shadows. The affair(s) can
take place through an act of betrayal while having extra-marital
relationship(s) with other partner (s) whereby hiding all of the cheating incidence(s)
in a secretive way from one’s committed life partner is the solemn sinful act;
4. Going out to parties with friends who lead vicious lifestyles (drinking alcoholic beverages, smoking, consuming drugs, and keeping a nightlife routine), and hiding the act from one’s conjugal or life partner;
5.
Lying to one’s life
partner on themes that are considered negligible or unimportant whereby future
events that translate into may jeopardize situations that present themselves on
unexpected moments;
6.
Leading double-sided
lifestyles whereby one of the counterparts (the man or the woman, usually)
displays a different representation of a certain kind towards the other partner
when in reality there is a fake personality that is really ‘in play’. This concerned
counterpart is lying to his/her life partner while he/she is leading a double-sided
role whereby lying to the other people being dealt with in the other kind of
lifestyle of everyday living, is also being lived with pure fakery;
7.
Stealing monetary funds,
and/or allowing money or financial assets to be depleted from one’s trusted
life partner’s banking account(s) without letting this latter person aware of
its true usage;
8.
OTHER… There are other
forms of conjugal relationships and/or lifelong love connectedness that exist
in their sincere falsehoods. These vary in their own respective ways from relationship
to relationship. However, due to the elaborate situations that depict each of
their respective manifestations, these are not being pointed out herein.
The reality of a true relationship is crucially
based on the degree of trust that is being maintained all throughout the
relationship’s turnout. Most often, true relationships survive all the way
through when love is kept ongoing and that obstructions of different kinds
don’t dare create any unhealthy impact on its existence.
The fear of losing someone’s company (i.e., the life
partner, spouse, lover, companion and/or the conjugal soulmate’s company), is
the leading cause for keeping this someone away from knowing the reality of one’s
innermost evil-minded residues. These evil-minded residues are the ones that
usually turnout to be the firm displays of betrayals in relationships. These
evil remnants often translate into acts that lead to inappropriate
consequences. The truth remains very hard to acknowledge, unless with gutful
beliefs and daring insights, all is resolved at ‘one go’. This evil-self can be
freed once and for all from one’s midst when all misleading thoughts or
doubtful instincts are eliminated from the mind of one’s life-counterpart. By
admitting with full accountability on the true reasons behind one’s act of
betrayal towards the respective companion or life partner, all conflicting
issues can be resolved. The fact that it is best to tell the truth with a
daring attitude, allows this relationship to flourish with no further
deteriorations. If true love really exists, and that the sense of care is
present, the other life partner or life companion will eventually forgive and
allow the relationship to carry its course.
Firm attires that appeal strongly in relationships,
are met with the following key traits: honesty, sincerity, truthfulness,
patience, persevering approaches, calm and serene attitudes, dedications,
devotions, spiritual understandings, compassion, comprehension, open-minded
self, etc.
A true meaningful relationship that survives all challenges is one that needs not much analysis from any kinds of parties. It is witnessed in its real format. It is one such relationship that defies nothing and that has nothing much to prove to anyone or to anybody. It will survive all the way through until death separate the couple from each of their respective midst. The very essential fact that it survives makes it a significant relationship that marks an exemplary journey to live up to. Acts of selflessness, abilities of keeping calm and serene thinking, daily organizing and monitoring of actions and activities, as well as, maintaining balance in health, wealth and time management, are the true realities that set an exemplary relationship apart from downsides of life. A true relationship requires no ties to the possession of beauty, attraction, good-looks, extreme wealth, or highly-ranked social status for its presence dwells in the remarkable connective bond between two loved ones.
